Long-term relationship (almost 4 years). I really love him and he says he loves me. But he doesn't want to marry me because I am not white and he is. He wants to get therapy so that he can change his mind and stay with me. Should I wait for him? I am so hurt. I go back and forth everyday and have panic attacks because I don't know what to think.
Most Helpful Guy
Wow what a racist prick... you are good enough to date but not marry because of your race. He will always at least to an extent hold it against you. He is a dick and not worth a damn. Move on and find a real man who can appreciate you.5
Most Helpful Girl
WHAT DA ACTUAL FUCK? What am I reading?
Why did he start dating in the first place if he's not attracted to your race? I'm just baffled, I can't even begin to think how your relationship went through for all of these years.. and THERAPY? seriously?3