Most Helpful Guy
To be honest, you're 100% in the right. There's nothing wrong with what you did. I think he's overreacting when he says he's going to call the police, because they would actually favor you in these scenario. Especially since you have a severe bruise and legitimate reason to fear for your safety (pushing you and getting too close for comfort as you mentioned). Don't apologize. Let him apologize for his behavior while intoxicated. Alcohol has caused widespread abuse and violence over households throughout this country. It's unfortunately common. Actually, you should be threatening to break up with him if anything. I suggest leaving him for sure, move on. The future doesn't look too bright if he continues to drink. He might actually hurt you severely...
Most Helpful Girl
My opinion is that you are both responsible for that situation that happened, but also I think that violence is not an answer. But situation was really out of control. But you said that he did it earlier and it was not just "one time " situation. I personally think that he overreacted because he did not expected that you'll hit him back. You should apologize to him but you should do that in front of his family or his mom, because she is mother too and she should understand you. You are pregnant and you should keep yourself from any kind of stress. Best Wishes :)