I just need opinions, thank you
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No photos, you're in a vulnerable place after what has just happened. You don't know who you're getting advice from. They could be a total creep, they could be the type of person who zeroes in on someone's flaws and attacks. This is the Internet - no photos. Besides even if people say you look good will you believe it, or will you look for reasons why they don't mean it?
But if even one person says you don't look good, that will crush you right now.
You hurt your ex so he hurt you- but he has no ground to stand on. You did nothing wrong. He probably has fears of not being good enough and that's why he reacted that way. He knows your core belief is that your appearance is _____. So he went there.
I would cease all contact with him. Clearly he has no concept of boundaries and how far is too far.
And anyways people like this need to be knocked down a few pegs- at least 3 or so1
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