We've been dating for 5 months. Everything was going great, he was crazy about me and we totally hit it off. Then he goes on a 6 week trip to south america, which was already planned before we met.
During his trip, I gave him space and let him initiate all contact. Which he did almost every day, telling me he missed me, sending me pics etc.
He's messaging me continuously during his return trip home, even asked me to move in together.
So when he's back in town, we're supposed to meet, but he cancels due to a family thing he totally forgot about. I ask him when we can reschedule, but he seems to have plans with everyone except me. I sent him a text asking when would be a good time for him, but all he said was he was working the next week. No suggestion for another day or anything. I didn't reply and haven't heard from him since, it's been a week now. Is this his way of breaking up?
It had nothing to do with me, but he had to deal with some things that have to do with his past and said he didn't want to burden me with it. I'm sorta relieved this didn't turn out to be his way of breaking up, but at the same time I'm still angry that he just left me hanging. I haven't replied yet. What to do?
Most Helpful Guy
If he have broken all communication for past one week then, I am sorry to say, he might be planning of a break-up.
But before thinking anything or feeling sad, try to contact him and tell him about your worries. He should at least give you a reason behind all this.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes just up and vanished, I guess the trip made him realize he didn't want a relationship. You should texted him and said if he didn't want to date in the first place then why he bother you in the first place. He could at least have the balls to send a text and says he's no longer interested.0