He dumped me and moved a month and half ago and I've been awful to him asking him all these questions about our relationship claiming he never loved me bc he cheated. Constantly calling and texting him and his family. Yelling at him and calling him horrible names. Logging into his snapchat etc. So to make it up to him I was going to send him a cookie bouquet with a note apologizing. Well I asked his family for the address and they all freaked out on me and told him. He got pissed and said he didn't want anything and blocked me on everything. I was just trying to be nice and apologize for what I did. How can I fix this?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes you are being a stalker. Yes you are being inappropriate. No you are not helping yourself. He is the one who cheated, give yourself some dignity. Move on. You deserve much better. He simply isn't worth it. What you are doing is not good at all. Not gooooood. Very emberrassing. And contacting his family? That is in my opinion outrageous. A relationship is a private matter between you and that person. Involving third parties is unacceptable. Its not the end of the world. I hope you have learned your lesson for the next guy who comes along. It will get better, but you have to move on first.2
Most Helpful Girl
Anybody that has been cheated on can relate to what your going through. I don't like to tell guys I date this bc I think it will make them see me as an easy target but every guy I have ever gotten serious with has cheated on me. I realize now it's bc I get to comfortable in a relationship and lazy and men like adventure and fun. They get lazy with you then someone comes along that is fun and Bam... bye bye relationship. So now when things start to get boring I mix it up. That being said (to help u in future relationships) I hate to tell you but the only way this will get any easier is to stop what you are doing. you are just your torturing yourself and pushing him further and further away. your best bet is to just walk away. Maybe a few months or more from now u can shoot him a message apologising and he will then hear it but right now he is just thinking your wanting his address to stalk him more. So wait... then say ur sorry. if you even care to then. I promise 6 months from now u won't give two shits about this guy.1