I recently separated my partner of 9 years. He has the kids on the weekends because I work weekends. I am not used to being alone so the three days he has the kids are really hard for me. I can't sleep, no matter how tired I am. I haven't been alone since I was a teenager. And I feel really blue because I can't figure out what to do with my alone time. It's depressing that I have nothing when they are gone. Where do I start?
Most Helpful Guy
Take it from me. Just came out of a 13 year marriage. Find something you enjoy bars, movies, book readings, spend time with those friends you weren't able to while you were with your ex, find a new friend too talk with I talked to this girl from halfway across the country every day my kids were with their mom or in bed. Most important of all is dont lose yourself in another guy just for something to do. It will take time for you to adjust. I found it easier to lose my self in my kids. Take them on family trips, movies, out to dinner, parks, get them in sports helps to have as much scheduled as possible.1
Most Helpful Girl
i am always alone i like it0