Anyway, I now have this huge urge to message him to wish him good luck for an audition I know he has coming up tomorrow but I can't decide if this is a good idea. I fully respect and accept his decision to end our relationship and will not be begging for answers or trying to get him to take me back it would purely be to wish him luck (and because I miss talking to him and want to check he's ok).
Is it a good idea or not?
- If you think you can handle it go for it
- No you should give it more time
- Other (please explain below)
- I wanna see the results of this poll
Most Helpful Guy
My personal experience is, yes, it's okay to call, however, stick to conversation points.
One, first off ask how are you? When he replies, don't probe.
Next, share something you are doing. Again, keep it short. Do not expand the point to include questions.
Last, wish him well, and say your goodbye.
The more you stick to this format, the more he'll appreciate it. In time, do this once a week, and over time, he may open up to you, may not. This is about creating a healthy boundary for him, and for you.
Most Helpful Girl
I would wait. Its too soon. Things at this point can get messy if you message now