We we have no kids and only been married for almost 2 years. I have made every attempt to communicate with him how important BOTH of us participate in this marriage and it gets us nowhere. He won't change. About once a week I get a text message from him saying sorry... but the cycle continues. I love the man he used to be, I don't love the man he is now. I think I want a divorce.
Most Helpful Guy
What happened in his life that makes him frustrated and cuss you out daily? You shouldn't do any cooking or housework for awhile to see how he respond. If he hasn't had sex with you in over an year then he's giving it to someone else. It's very possible that he might be on the DL... but I don't know enough yet to fully conclude that. Before he stopped giving you sex, what was y'all sex life like? Do either of y'all have a history of cheating? When did he stop taking an interest in your life? Did you start the relationship out by taking care of him? Having no kids with him is a huge point for you just in case you go through with the divorce. How long were y'all together before getting married? If you have any relatives near where you live you should ask them if you can live with them for about a month to see how your husband react to that... don't tell him what you're doing just up and go since he takes no interest in your life.
Most Helpful Girl
I would seek marriage counseling, and if that doesn't help, divorce.