Ever dated someone who was depressed & scared of receiving?

I'm dating this girl & it's been about 4months now & within the last month she's been really going through these moods. She tells me EVERYTHING & I mean everything. She's had a pretty rough life growing up with no parental guidance to guide her through life telling her what's right/wrong. She's witnessed her father overdose & her mother revert to drinking to cope which made her pick up a drinking habit. When she drinks she becomes a different person & do things to hurt the one she's love (flirting with other girls) Although we're not in a relationship she talks about commitment with me a lot. We've had conversation about her past relationship damaged her & caused her major trust issues. I've met her mother & her mother always thank me for the kind words of wisdom I share with her daugther whenever she's stressed. She comes to me for everything weather its advice, opinions, to vent, or just to call me and just not say anything. We're comfortable with each other & she's expressed she's very comfortable with me. Recently she scared me b/c she called crying saying she doesn't want to live anymore, how she's going to miss me, & that she loved me. Freaked me out & forced me to call her mom & close friends. Ever since then she's been extremely distant & I feel like she's pushing me away. I care for her deeply & love her extremely but I'm so broken right now. She tells me she loves me & can trust me with her life then turn around days later & tells me she's talking to other people & how she feels like she's not ready for a relationship right now b/c she needs to find herself & how she doesn't want to hurt me she wants to be honest & tell me she talks to other girls. I feel betrayed in a way b/c I felt like I was her person & I felt our connection/bond has ended in a way I've been there for her. I haven't reached out to her since & neither has she, she views my snaps I make but that's about it. I'm concerned for her :(
Ever dated someone who was depressed & scared of receiving?
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