Ever dated someone who was depressed & scared of receiving?
What Guys Said 1
She is damaged. She likely does not have very high self esteem and feels that one day you will hurt her, so she sabotages things with you. She needs help you cannot provide her. All you can do is support her and be there for her as she goes through it. If she refuses, you need to think really hard what your next move is. You cannot save her. All it takes is one split second of a dumb idea when drunk to end it all and leave you holding a big bag of guilt.
What Girls Said 1
I was in a relationship where I was needing emotional support from them but they also needed it from me. We were bad for each other because we were both depressed. And we thought we made it better for each other but we were actually bringing each other down more. He knew he couldn't continue the relationship because he was on the edge and I had to let him go but I still love him. You just have to let them know you'll always be there and just support them ok whatever way you can. Encourage them to find a councillor or someone they trust to talk things through. Sometimes you want to be the therapist for them. Listen and make them feel better. And you can, but what they really need is professional help. Otherwise you'll end up hurting yourself
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