Most Helpful Girl
It is honestly just a matter of accepting the past, letting go of it, and being open to letting others not only love you, but for you to love them.
Being hung up on someone who doesn't want to be with you is a waste of time and energy. It is time to spend your time and energy on new opportunities.
Most Helpful Guy
you got to say it to yourself and mean it. it's your mind not its own. if you are looking for a new relationship, simply go out a meet someone new. don't do comparisons between your ex and the potential. when your mind feels fluttered with thoughts, beath... repeat if necessary.