Their trust issues are on another level, they don't believe you love them it's draining. Have anybody ever been in a situation like this? I've been dating this person who opened up to me about everything & expressed her love for me & how she can trust me with her life. Now, she told me she can't deal with me on an emotional level & how she loves me but just can't satisfy anybody. All I've done was be there for her, she expressed she didn't want to live anymore & I was the first person she called. She calls me for everything & now she's saying she can't deal with me anymore. I haven't treated her badly in any way so it's jus kind of heart breaking :(
Ever dated someone who was so damaged by their past relationship?
What Guys Said 3
I've been in that situation before, yeah. On both ends of it. The truth is, she's suffering through some depression right now. She needs help. And what you've been doing by being supportive and just being there for her is the best thing you could've been doing. The decision to get out of the, to put it lightly, slump she's in has to be hers.
I wish there was a simple solution... but I'm afraid there isn't one. Just keep being you. Solidarity and at least some sense of stable ground is the best thing for her.0
i am currently in this situation too. I felt that she was worth it to me and even though she has these problems if you want her then its worth it. but if yoy dont want her then dont lead her on. thats just sad and will make it 10 time harder for the next guy that actually does want her.0
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