October last year I met one of my friend's friends over the phone. And we started talking over the phone and on facebook all the time. And soon we like liked each other. It was really awesome we were always talking and flirting. We'd even stay up till 3am talking online or on the phone. And we only met once in person... I know it's weird. But anyways in February he asked me out and then for most of that month he ignored me. No matter how much I tried he wouldn't talk to me, he was always busy. But anyways a month after he asked me out he broke up with me and we haven't talked since. But I cannot for the life of me forget about him. He was the only guy who paid that much attention to me and valued my attention as much as him. I thought it was perfect but... I was wrong. What's the fastest way to forget and get over him?
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There IS no fast way. There are lots of illusions about doing things to get over people. All the things will leave you feeling sadder and upset more than not doing them.
If you try to force your feelings they tend to stay put and be enhanced. This is probably because by pushing agains them you are constantly considering them and therefore keeping them in the front of your mind.
My advice is to not "try" and do anything. Simply live your life and enjoy the friends who are still there for you (guy and girl). If you have any sadness over the past, let if effect you in whatever form it takes and share your feelings with your closest friend. If it is a guy friend, make sure its someone hot ;).
So, I guess I'm saying the fastest way is not to try at all and just live through it as it happens. Though everyone is different so its good you will get lots of different advice/viewpoints here.0
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