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are u spiritual? do u believe in God?
first u have to acknowledge what there is to be gained from this lost relationship. strength? knowledge? wisdom to do better? humiliation from consequences? realizing hurt from that of which uv given? coming to the acceptance of these terms and perceptions of this particular relationship will help u more so see it in a different light and help u cope with it in a healthier way.
I have try to come to terms and I feel like I gained nothing from the breakup you know I have tried everything but all I can see and remember is her I pushed so many people outta my life for her that now when I turn around there is no one there for me
Well I am religious but I am not a devoted Sikh
maybe you went through this so u could become closer to who would never disappoint and someone u can always trust. someone u will always find happiness with and know that the support will always be great. maybe u rested too much of your happiness in the hands of a woman and found Urself extremely deep in sadness due to uncertain circumstances. I found that wen my ex and I split... I could only hand my heart over to God and trust him , find true happiness in the relationship I have with him , that way no one could ever hurt me , because my whole soul happiness and joy isn't in them. I was severely hurt by my ex because I put my heart in his hands to take care of , and he tore it.
I had to strengthen my most important relationship.
I handed everything to this girl everything and she just tore it apart it I don't know if t hurt her but it hurt me so bad I can't stare at my self back of my head I keep thinking that my love wasn't enough for her and god I love always there for me but I don't know if he's here this time nothing is going the way I want it to be going in my life everything is going down the drain
he's closest to the ones brokenhearted and crushed in spirit. he's watching u , looking at u right now Waiting for u to tell him u trust him and firmly believe that he's got you dude! it's the only way. he doesn't want u to resort to drinking.. he wants u to learn how to build a relationship with him instead seeing how much effort u put into that one... ur love was probably always good enough... God has his ways of making sure we are cut off from things to acknowledge that we need to get bak in touch with him.
things will start happening in Ur favor when u realize ur trusting in his full support. he'll give u signs and tools to propel u Wer u need to be , just don't use the tools to destruct his plan. "coincedences" will start to happen that will help u in Ur everyday life and it's only him blessing u for putting ur trust in the fact he's all u need. I promise. it's tough. but I did it , after finding out on my year anniversary that my boyfriend lied to me about everything down to his last name... ruined me. I had to find a way out.
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