I thought things were going great and everyone complimented on how happy I was since we got together. Last Thursday I saw something online that upset me and I asked him about it while I was at work. He instantly started deflecting things right back to me. He didn't see what he did was wrong and he and he failed to see why my feelings were hurt. We get into bickers once in a while but they do not last. I normally pout and we are back to our playful selves in an hour. Well I was hurt by this and we were heavily fighting through texts. He stayed at his parents Thursday night (he pretty much lives with me) and then Friday the fighting continued and he told me he was going to come get his things and stay at his parents while I cooled off. Saturday came and we didn't really talk to much so there wasn't fighting. He left something that he needed and I told him I would bring it to him. When I got there I had brought his firestick too and he told me that he didn't need that and to leave it there because I aced like he wouldn't be back over. We bickerd once more and he told me to text him what I wanted to do. I literally got 2 minutes down the road and asked him to come over after my shower so we can fix things and then it was like a flip and he dumped me. I haven't been in contact with him for 4 days. I had to text him last night to see if he got the stuff I left on his porch yesterday and nothing. I am so devastated and I want him back in my life. Is he going to come around? Is this his way of getting back at me for hurting his feelings?
Will he come around after he cools off from breaking up with me?
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This relationship sounds dangerously close to toxic. You're over anxious and insecure about him, and he is refusing to talk things out with you. One of you is obviously too immature for a real adult relationship, or you're just not compatible. Sounds to me like you *need* him too much, and you should probably take some time to find your center, learn to love yourself, instead of waiting around for a man to love you.3
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he sounds like an ass, let him go1
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