I cheated on my boyfriend. It was the biggest mistake of my life and I will never, ever do it again. No one knows, so I don't think he'd ever find out from anyone else. We love each other and plan on spending a long time together. So should I tell him and destroy him? Or keep it to myself, vow to never do it again, and consider it a mistake, learn from it, and keep it in the past?
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It will eventually come out sometime, whether it be a week from now, or 20 years from now and you are married or whatever. From my perspective, I would like to be told if my girlfriend cheated on me, because it shows me that they love me enough to tell me, and trust in my decision (to stay, or leave them). Finally...what if your boy hears it from someone else, I mean boys tell other boys things, and it will eventually get around. So either he hears it from you (and most likely will break up with you) , or you tell him and probably stay together if he is a ethically straight man.0