Just did it pretending to be someine else. I actually messaged the details of our ugly relationship to one of the girls amongs his fb friends. I thought she looked like his type and possibly was involved with him. I honestly wanted to warn her if what kind of man my ex is. Her response was as if she was confussed why i was sharing all that with her as they were only mates. His respons was "why are you messaging to my gf?" I have given a birth to our daughter 2 months ago. We have been through hell in intensive care for two weeks. Him and his family were aware of all happening and no one had a heart to even call to see how our newborn daughter was coping. Does he deserve hell from his ex (aka me)?