It's been about 3weeks NC. Even though I deleted him on Snap, he still has me but he can't see my story. It just hurts because I gave my all to him and risked certain things. He was the only person I was close to these last months. Do you think there's a chance he'll realized what he did? Like if he can talk to an ex that cheated on him?
Most Helpful Guy
I feel like the chances of him realizing what he did is very slim. I feel like if he does ever "change" he is just putting up a front and just trying to mask his true feelings where in time he will show his true colors.
Also, it seems like he wants to get very physical with you and won't really be able to wait too long for you to put out. I fear if you do get back together with him he might just want to try to marry you just so he can have sex with you1
Most Helpful Girl
Honey, if there is any chance of reconciliation it'll be because he wants something physical from you. He does not respect your boundaries, and although this may sound like a lot to want from every single male it's absolutely primitive and the base of every single relationship. Therefore, you shouldn't even have to ask and it's not a lot. You are an equal to him; he has no right to pressure you into doing something that you don't want to. The fact that you're asking this question means that you know that. You're an intelligent young woman. You can do much better. It may be hard and it may take time but I promise that you'll be glad that you left him in the past. The first step is learning to respect yourself!
Nobody is ever worth your wellbeing (unless it's a close family member in a crises)