He hit me in the head because I argued with him because he called me stupid. He threatened to hit me and then I told him he didn't need to act immature and then he hit me really hard in the side of the head. I have a knot now and it hurts to chew food. He said if I was more intelligent that it wouldn't have happened and that if I wanted him to leave that he could easily find smarter women. Later on I told him my head was aching and he said "I'm sorry your head is aching but I'm not as sorry as you want me to be." We have a family together and I just don't want to tear it apart... I would lose all my friends if I broke up with him as well. Is this normal? He said his father hit his mother and they seem like a happy couple now. I have never had a father and I just don't know if this is normal guy behavior. He has been my only boyfriend and I have no confidence and don't feel as if I have any value to any one else. I just don't want to be alone but I do want a nice guy
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like an abusive relationship if he's telling you all that, and you feel that you would lose all of your friends.
I mean really? If those friends would leave because of you leaving a bad situation, then they are not your friends.
If you stay in this bad situation without trying to leave, maybe you are stupid.2
Most Helpful Girl
Leave is what you do. It's better to be single than end up in a body bag because you're boyfriend beat you to death.3