After breaking up, how long did it take you to feel like it was over for good? I'm not talking about that initial denial phase. In general, did you feel like it was over right when you dumped/were dumped or did it take you some time?
Most Helpful Guy
if u dump the other then u feel it was over for good. if u got dumped it will take some amount of time to come out of tht sadness so it will take few months depending on how strong n serous u were in tht relationship1
Most Helpful Girl
If I'm the one breaking up with him, generally I know it's over for good when I break up with him. If he's breaking up with me, 5 month relationship, took me 4 weeks? 1st week was, OMG I miss him so much my heart is breaking and crying over every little thing. 2nd week was pretending to be okay when I'm breaking apart inside, every so often part of it would break through to the outside and I'd cry again. 3rd week, I'm mostly okay, life has been moving on, I've survived 2 weeks without him, I can do this, but if he were to apologize say he would fix everything, I'd take him back. 4th week, I'm okay, honestly I am, would I take him back now, no. I did a lot of analyzing, talking through my emotions with friends, thinking through the relationship and my emotions and I do think that helped. The moment when I was finally over the relationship, knew we were never ever getting back together, it was when I realized it wasn't me, it was him, and I deserve better.1