a lot of guys I've dated are like brick walls
Most Helpful Guy
When guys interract with each other, there is almost never any discussion about feelings. Men generally are not worried about how they feel, or how they make each other feel. Why? because if one guy hurts another guy's feelings, the problem is generally resolved with a fight, with a dominant male coming out on top. Talking about feelings generall puts you at the bottom of this sort of interaction.
Some guys go so far as to define feelings as the sensory inputs that come from something touching their skin. "feelings" as discussed by women are then generally defined as "wussie stuff."
But here's another interesting point. Some people say that women offer sex to get love, and men offer love to get sex. This is not exactly a true or fair statement, and in most cases, when a person actually does this, they end up lying about how they feel, or faking orgasms.
All the same, it is pretty clear that guys say they are interested in women who will have sex with them, and women say they are interested in guys who will share their feelings. Unfortunately, this is a lie in both cases. Oh, yeah, a guy will be interested in having sex with a woman who is offering just that, but she won't get anything else. In fact, a woman who just offers sex is called a lot of unpleasant things.
Well, maybe girls will be interested in sharing their feelings with a guy who is offering just that... but will he be getting anything else? Most likely he'll be called a lot of unpleasant things.
When a guy says he want's to see your knockers, do you show them? Not every time, huh? So why is it that you expect a guy to just open up every time you want to look at his soul? I suspect that a lot of people think that their souls are a little bit more personal than their skin.0
Most Helpful Girl
they can't trust0