I acted absolutely needy after my breakup. I still have feelings for him and would love to reconcile. I decided to give him and myself some space and will go into no Contact for three months (blocked him from facebook to get my space). I'm working to become the best version of myself by working out, reconnected with old friends and keeping myself busy.
I was usually reaaally independent, but have had a lot of family issues (awful fight with my parents, had to move out and lost contact with them for several months) during the last half year.. so I kind of clung onto him without really noticing it. I was scared of losing him aswell. Welp I guess this happens and I learned from it. Is there still any way to fix this?
Most Helpful Guy
Just fake it to start. Figure out what you should do and then do your best to hold yourself back when the urge to be needy hits. Eventually it will get easier and easier to do. I think we all by nature have a needy side in our youth. Somewhere along the way more and more people have stopped being self disciplined about it and it has gone out of control.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah you can0