Most Helpful Guy
You know, it happens tp the most of us.
it's like , the more you do one thing, the lesser and lesser you get interested in it.
When he loved you, he thought that he could keep it up forever (Assuming that he ever did love you for you and not anything else).
But that's what usually happens these days to couples that ends up divorcing each other.
Either they cheat on each other or they get dissatisfaction from each other.
People dont tend to stay together and work it out anymore. They just give up so easily.
He may have loved you. But i dont think he does anymore. And if you plan to move forward with him, i dont think it'll be a good idea. Coz i think that when "not feeling it" moment comes into the lifes of a couple, thats when they go out and ends up CHEATING on each other.
Most Helpful Girl
I agree with you. There is no chemistry and it seems like he isn't really trying. He should know its important to you to take you out, especially on your bday. That's the ultimate no-no.