My boyfriend broke up with me and we got back together a day later. He's mad I don't talk with his friends enough. I am a pretty quiet person. He says he still loves me but he doesn't see a future anymore if things stay this way. We're giving it this last shot to see if I can give it my all. First I would like advice on what to do and how to show I really want to be friends with his friends? And second do you think everything will go back to normal if this is fixed now that he wanted to end it?
Most Helpful Guy
If he's telling you to be friends with his friends why are you listening? He can't control you. Let him be mad and go on and find someone that's not controlling.2
Most Helpful Girl
Sweetie, your boyfriend needs to realize that you are a living, breathing person with your own desires and needs; this isn't a damn Sims game. It sounds to me like he's trying to control you; not date you.
You could explain to him that his friends are HIS friends, and you have no problem with them, but you're not going to change who you are to suit anyone's palette.
If he can't accept you as you are, what are you even doing with him, anyways?
Be mindful and respectful of his friends, and don't be afraid to be their friends too, but in your time; and most importantly, stay "you".4
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