So your ex had a major flaw that was fatal to the relationship, and you would rather nip it in the bud than put fertilizer down to nurture the flower that was the relationship. How come?
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"Flaws" can be fixed for sure. It really depends on what she thinks those are. I try not to use "flaws" as reasons not to be with someone.
If she has self esteem issues, then that's all on her. It's call self esteem, it's an esteem of yourself. If she goes through this and you try to make it better sometimes you make it worse. It gets really hard, the relationship turns into work and causes stress, rather then fun. I get the feeling that I can't really win either way. So you get to the point where you ask yourself, "why bother".