Most Helpful Guy
Personally, I'd seek some sort of help to try and save the marriage. Get him to tag along. If he decides he doesn't even want to try at all, it's probably for the best that things should end. things may seem rough right now, but it always gets better. Just take it one day at a time.
Most Helpful Girl
Communicate is key in any relationship/marriage. It is vital that you all communicate with one another. Just get right to the point and tell him. If you don't want a divorce, then you need to (communicate) tell me what you want. You all made vows to one another before god and not communicating (even just simple words) is not acceptable for either o e of you. Pray about, relax and be open to listen. Make your responses simple and straight to the point. Hope that helps!