After one amazing year with an amazing man, we were about to move in together. We started talking more and more about our future together. He is 33 and I am 27. It became clear we wanted different things. I wanted children, but he just wanted me. We made the decision to end our relationship because somewhere down the track one of us would not be happy with the life we gave the other. Is it more important to love your life or is just loving the person enough?