After one amazing year with an amazing man, we were about to move in together. We started talking more and more about our future together. He is 33 and I am 27. It became clear we wanted different things. I wanted children, but he just wanted me. We made the decision to end our relationship because somewhere down the track one of us would not be happy with the life we gave the other. Is it more important to love your life or is just loving the person enough?
Most Helpful Guy
Did the subject of kids ever come up early in your relationship or was it avoided? Were you worried about scaring him off initially and thought he would want them after awhile?
“love your life..=.. loving the person” this needs to be balanced (or be equal) so if kids will be a big part of your life then this would no longer be equal.
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Most Helpful Girl
If you have different goals there's no point in staying together. You'll find someone who likes you AND wants kids1