After one amazing year with an amazing man, we were about to move in together. We started talking more and more about our future together. He is 33 and I am 27. It became clear we wanted different things. I wanted children, but he just wanted me. We made the decision to end our relationship because somewhere down the track one of us would not be happy with the life we gave the other. Is it more important to love your life or is just loving the person enough?
Most Helpful Guy
It sucks that you two had to breakup but I would say what you did is completely justifiable. You clearly know what you value and he wouldn't have been able to provide that. It might hurt now but in the long run you saved yourself a bunch of pain.1
Most Helpful Girl
If you have different goals there's no point in staying together. You'll find someone who likes you AND wants kids1