So long story short we brokeup over a year ago and at first she wouldn't respond to my texts or anything. Maybe a week ago I texted her to check up on her to see if she was doing okay. To my surprise she responded saying I'm doing okay I guess. When she said I guess it made me feel like she wasn't doing okay. But anyways we preceded to have a 3 hour conversation through text about how her life is going etc... a few days later I asked if we could talk on the phone but she denied saying that we would probably end up arguing like we use to. I tried to say I'm not like that anymore etc... but she didn't believe me of course. So I said why would you even want to be my friend if you think we are going to argue? She then bypassed that question with no response and said I want us to be friends but nothing more. That kinda boggled my mind a bit. She is also in a relationship. Actually the second relationship after she brokeup with another guy after our relationship. Anyways opinions are appreciated.
Does my ex really want to be friends?
What Girls Said 1
Probably not. She's just being nice. She may have thought after a year you'd be over it and when you reached out she realized maybe you weren't. If you talked to her for 3 hours after not talking for a year that's a lot all at once. She was being nice and probably wanted to know how you were. Talking on the phone wouldn't be someothing a girl with a boyfriend would do unless she wanted something more. She's avoiding re kindling anything and probably doesn't want to right now. There's no hard feelings and she may care about you still to a point but she didn't want to cross the line and start something. I'd leave her alone and really work on moving on.0
What Guys Said 1
I find it pretty weird that she would want to be friends with you (an ex) when she currently has a boyfriend, I feel like her boyfriend wouldn't like that very much. Whenever someone wants to be friends with their ex, I tend to believe that they allow the friendship in hopes that you would be able to get back together. I could always be wrong though1
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