I'm having an extremely hard time taking care of my year old daughter. My parents are always arguing with me about watching her. I work 12 hour shifts and go to school full time. I work overnights and I don't think I can take care of her anymore. I'm trying to start life and I won't be able to make it like this with no one to watch her. My parents always give me a hard time and say I don't take care of my responsibilities and I'm tired of hearing it. There is only so much I can do and I just give up. It's the hardest decision I've ever had to make in my life but I have no choice because of all of this. Even though it's basically my mom complaining about it, she has threatened to go to court for custody over her. I don't want her to have my child, no way. She will alienate her from me and will use her against me. How do I go about putting her up for adoption?
Most Helpful Guy
If you are worried about your mother getting custody of your daughter and alienating you and you don't want that to happen why on Earth would you tried to have your daughter adopted? Maybe you need to take responsibility for your actions and make that little girl your number one priority just like my little boy's my number 1 priority. Sounds like your parents are right4
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Most Helpful Girl
I don't get it. Why don't you let your mum take your child? She's her grandmother. She'll take care of her better than the adoption agency will.
You would rather give your daughter to strangers than to give your baby to her grandmother? at least she'll still be with a family. Your mum will raise her with love and care.
Yo do understand right, you'll NEVER be able to see see your child again, if you'll give her up for adoption. If she stays with your mum, at least you know she's in safe hands and is happy. You'll get to see her every now and then.
By the way. Where is the father of the baby? Why doesn't he take care of her? It's his responsibility to take care of her as much as it's yours.5