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You may want to seek therapy or consider a divorce. Bi polar is a serious mental illness that can be difficult for a spouse to deal with. Her calling you manipulative is simply her way of projecting her bad qualities onto you. My ex has done this to me many times.
bipolar? just run and don't look back.no matter what she did wrong it's "your fault", it's just a game to make you whipped and to control you. just run, cut connections and drop all feelings for her. don't get trapped in the spiders Web.
we have a 4 yr old together... can't cut and run
you can create a distance. my friend got a 3 year old with a bipolar hellspawn and I gotta say, it's not nice cause she can be a manipulative asshole which uses the kid against him.if she really is bipolar. then always expect the worst cause you can't have a discussion or something nice with a psycho.create a distance, be on your guard and drop her out of your life with a little bit of connection only for your kids sake. or try to get full customy. don't be a wimp and forgive her. no matter what and always to have backup or save/record messages/calls/conversations if she start bitching about the kid or something else cause.. as said if she is bipolar.. anything can happen! I've been there myself with one. I also got first hand experience of the random drama, manipulative bullshit and threats.
and yeah... remember. don't fall for her bullshit. never ever ever believe anything or accept it. keep it professional, a mask up and just do what you do when having to deal with her but, mate... don't fall for lies and bullshit! she already tries when blaming you for cheating on you. typical bullshit.
We are separated for 2 weeks now... I'm try to keep it together around my kid.. but gets hard when she asks me why I don't love mommy anymore... so.. cold shoulder and hope she finally gets therapy she said she would?
just sit down with you kid and explain that it's over. nothing wrong with that. just make sure it ain't words that your ex put in her head. whatever you do, do not go back. it's hard but you can manage.
Ahh dude I feel your pain 😥
You married before knowing her well enough.
We dated for 5 years... all the bipolor issues just started 4 years ago.. but I didn't find out until Thanksgiving 2016
More than bad luck. The worst luck. But I guess that she isn't happy too, being bipolar.
Move on with your life.
one day she's in love with me and our family... the other I'm the reason she's depressed.. hard to let go
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