I guess my brain is still in denial a bit. Still thinking that he's probably miserable. That he'll come back eventually. That he's just scared and needs to see that I still love him in order to make a move to get me back.
But that's not the case, I'm sure. It shocks me to realize that this is exactly what he wanted. That a life without me in it is just fine and he doesn't feel sad about it at all. That he's continuing to live his life normally without any regrets, and that's what makes me angry and breaks my heart most of all.
And I have no choice but to accept it. If he wanted to fix things, he'd do it. He has my number. He knows where I live. He knows where I work. If he wanted to, he would. But he doesn't.
And I guess what makes me angry the most is that he doesn't feel as sad or bad about it as i do. That in a year's time he'll meet another girl and feel the same way with her that he did with me. And he'll give her everything that he wouldn't give me. He'll love her more. And that kills me 😞
Most Helpful Guy
read your post and i still believe you still love him. if you still love him and want him back then you fight back for your man. i was also in this kind of situation some years back and i never gave up i knew that wasn't him that break up with me something was fishing was going on. Do you still love him and want him back.0
Most Helpful Girl
I am going through this. for three years. for three years I thought and dreamt the day he saw me he will be back. but instead I got "we were just friends" "everything I said to you I was joking". on top of that he got married and a baby on the way. but the worst part is he makes it his business to come by my work place every single day. so to answer your question you don't get over him. he will always be on your mind. he will always be a thought you run back to like a comfort thing. but you will Learn to live without him you will Learn you love him but he can't be yours.0