How do I distance myself from my ex without being mean?

We remained "friends" (so we could be in good terms and not hate each other. I agreed cuz he has my nudes lol), but I kinda don't like him. He talks sexual and flirts 24/7 whenever he texts and I reply to be polite, but he talks so sexual with me. I told him I just want to be FRIENDS but he still goes off on how I'm sexy and stuff at times. I don't want to block him cuz I feel mean.. But is that the only way to distance myself from him? He even got me a present for my bday and he wants to see me. I just think he wants to have sex but I told him I don't want to go any further than friends with him (I used to be super sexual with him and dirty talked 24/7 when we dated). What do I do? I told him I don't want to date anymore in general too (only to see if he would back off) but he said when I'm ready to date he will be waiting. I don't like being mean to him.. But ugh he has this idea that I still want his dick even tho I don't talk sexual with him anymore and I'm trying to be friends
How do I distance myself from my ex without being mean?
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