Most Helpful Guy
Boys are confusing because they have varying degrees of "confidence" in themselves and it manifests in their behavior.
Boys that are not confident and secure in their being will not pursue you, because they still require validation that can only be had through experience and achievement. Hence why most boys are pups unsure of the world.
There are guys who already feel achieved either through inherited achievement or thet dont give a fuck about higher achievement and are DTF all day and night. They will pursue you.
Later in life, most boys will grow into men and find their cojones and take what they want with brimming confidence. It takes time.
Once you understand that, you get why they behave so differently.1
Most Helpful Girl
Boys think the same about us lol1