OK so I have my wife right, and we have been on and off again for a few months. I move to New York while she was still in Texas. She later came to New York without me knowing to find a job. Since she has been here she has made it very clear she doesn't want to be here, in New York or the part I live in which is the boogy down Bronx. Also her and my father are bumping heads a lot which is unusual. Now she has been talking about her going back home to Houston but the only problem with that is we were saying we was going to work on us. I'm not going to try and up hold a marriage long distance. Now when she brought it up to me today there was no us only her. What should I think, feel, or do? I need help and I need it fast.