There's this guy I know and he's been with this girl last year but they broke up but they were still like "together". They were still hanging out and stuff but they weren't official anymore. During that time span, I had sex with him. Then the following month they got officially back together. And we had sex again, but this time he legit cheated on her. (Keep your opinions to yourself on how I'm such a bitch and how could I do such a thing, blah blah blah. I know what I did was bad, but whatever it's not my problem.) I'm not the only girl that he's cheating on his girlfriend with and I know it. So my question is, why is he still with her if he's constantly cheating on her and doesn't seem to care?
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It's comfortable. Basically, he's using you and other girls to fulfill his sexual needs. He wants spontaneity and spice, so he cheats. However, his girlfriend is still satisfying his other needs for stability, comfort, company, and every day fun. The kinds of things you only get after being with someone for a little while and developing a relationship. In short, he's getting to have his cake and eat it too. Breaking up with her to find someone who satisfies everything would take too much work for him and frankly I don't think he would find it yet. If he can cheat all the time the issue lies with him. It goes without saying that the guy is a jerk. But to answer your question simply, it's laziness. He's still getting other benefits (sexual and non sexual) that he doesn't want to work to find with anyone else just yet. Besides, if he's getting away with having sex elsewhere with girls like you, why would he? He's got the perfect scenario.2