I had to walk away from someone I really love and care about and I feel empty. I really want to text him and work it out, but I know I need to stand my ground and it's so hard.
Any helpful positive things to help me anything please 😞😔😒
Most Helpful Guy
Just remember that if you won't do the best by yourself then how can you expect anyone else to do good by you? If you know that someone is bad for you and you keep on going back then it stops being abuse and starts being self harm. Nobody said that doing the right thing will always be easy. However, the long term reward will be far greater than the short term high of giving in which is inevitably followed by the shit storm of a low that follows.
Sticking to integrity and self respect will enable you to heal much quicker and will leave less damage behind.0
Most Helpful Girl
Walking away from someone you love is one of the hardest things you can do, especially if they don't run after you. When we break up with someone, the one thing we feel is completely empty and lost and I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this feeling right now. I have been in a similar situation myself recently and it is heartbreaking, so I do relate to exactly how you are feeling. That feeling of wanting to text him and work things out, is a normal reaction, especially for us girls, and when we break up with someone, the hardest thing to do is forget them. When you feel like you want to do this, next time, distract yourself. When I have felt like this, I have text a friend instead, or I've sat down and told my mum how I am feeling and what I want to text, and then I forget about wanting to text him, and I keep doing that and realise that I can do it and I don't need to text him, if that makes sense? I also finds it helps if you write your feelings in a letter, addressed to him but don't actually send it. Write down everything that you would maybe want to say to him and then just save it. Do this until you are feeling better but please don't let this feeling eat you up inside. That is the worst thing you can do. Things will get better and you never know, in the future you might be able to actually sit down and talk it through together, start off slow again and see what happens. But for now, focus on you, make yourself feel like you again and sometimes no contact can actually make the heart grow fonder, having said that, it's not always the case. So make sure you are looking after yourself for you sake. Things will work out in the end, exactly how they are meant to!
Good Luck, hope it all works out for you and Keep Smiling :)1
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