I never want to eat anymore. Just the thought of eating hurts me. I don't know how to control it, when I do eat I feel horrible. I'm not doing this I want to lose weight I just don't want to eat.
Most Helpful Guy
Break ups are hard, but that's no reason to starve yourself. People will come into your life and be very important factor and leave abruptly. I know this by experience. I know it hurts, but you just have to move on. Just trust that day by day your life will slowly get better. I know most people want them to happen quick and that's why people are frustrated.
Most Helpful Girl
This sounds like it has hit your really hard, and I am really sorry to hear that. Break ups are never easy, and they never seem to get easier and we sit there and think 'this doesn't seem fair'. I, myself am going through something very similar to yourself, so believe it or not, I know exactly how you are feeling right now.
I know you say you don't want to eat, and the thought of eating hurts you, and these feelings are (as weird as it sounds), normal when you are going through something like this. It makes you feel sick to your stomach and you almost feel like if you don't eat, it will make you 'feel better' in a sense. But it won't. You could make yourself really poorly by doing this to yourself and you are damaging your insides as well. I have been going through this myself in the last month, and it is just now that I have started off (with baby steps) eating again, and being able to bring myself to have food. It won't change anything between yourself and your ex if you don't eat, it will just effect your wellbeing. But if you really don't want to eat a lot, start off small, drink plenty and just please try to look after yourself as best you can. Sometimes things have to 'fall apart' in order for them to actually fall together. You're a strong woman and if he has decided to move on as such, then he wasn't worth your time or effort. I don't know the situation but you should show him that you're better than that, and you can move on too, without him in your life. Trust me, your life isn't falling apart, it's come together!