I am curious because one day my ex got mad at me for simply saying I have to get going, yeah it was a bit harsh in the way I did say it. But then got mad at me again latter that day for suggesting for her to do something one way. Then she said "I HAVE THOUGHT OF THAT, why do you think I wouldn't have thought out that, you make me feel like a fool". I just am starting to get on a short with her and well did say "Why the heck can't you accept me for who I am, why can't you just stop arguing with me". Then our convo went friendly again and acted like nothing happened. We have been broken up for 6 months, and has a new boy friend.