I'm so lonely. I know it's wrong but I'm thinking of seeking attention and physical pleasure elsewhere since he doesn't want me. I've a very high sex drive but he rolls over. I feel so ugly and unwanted. He won't divorce me, says I'm a good woman.
I'm so lonely and confused.
Most Helpful Guy
You have to tell him how you feel, in great detail. Communication is one of the most important things you can have in a relationship, and lack of communication is a relationship killer. Tell him that the way he acts toward you makes you feel ugly and unwanted. Tell him that you have considered taking another lover and cheating on him. Tell him you need sex with him more than six times a year. Tell him you have a high sex drive. Don't just tell us these things, tell him. If he won't listen, make him listen - tell him to sit down and listen to you, and threaten him with divorce if he refuses to do so.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm really feeling for you dear.
Both a woman and man in a relationship need to feel desired especially as the years go by.
You could flirt with him during the day to build up the desire for sex.
Try a sexy text or two.
Have a special dinner once a week.
Thank him for the littlest things that he does.
Lack of attention can be the start of the down fall of a marriage.