My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago, and we were together for four years, I need help coping with it still. But the problem is I have autism, aspurgers syndrome, so I can't stop thinking of him, what do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Wait a sec. it show ur 15 is that true? & this relationship u said it lasted 4yrs so u were what 11 when u started? How old is this ex. bf? & Is he ur very first bf? Im just gonna assume he is. Let me start by saying of course u r gonna think of him still, its only natural cus if u didn't then the whole thing wasn't real. unfortunately u do that makes it real & means u have a heart, but right about now im sure its in pieces. & just so u know thats the only thing can't be avoided, when love is involve. that is the ultimate risk u take when u love someone. & u now just realizing it. Im gonna keep it real wit u & tell u like it is, so keep that in mind that im not here to offend u, but do what i can to help u mends it. So the love & risk thing, U took a chance & lost, i feel ur pain, understand the emotional state ur in, of lost, rejection, confuse, heartache, depression... I know each of them all to well. I know this cus once i took a chance & lost, So i know how much it hurts & how hard life must be right now, & especially if its ur first love its definitely gonna be one of the hardest thing u go through in life cus u had given ur heart & trust to the one u believe to be the one, instead u were the dunb one that believed it, I was also the dumb one too so i can relate with u there. Im NOT gonna be like other ppls & tell u that its not the end of the world, so cheer up its his lost, or u deserve someone better, or u dont need him, ur better off without him. NO IM NOT, cus little does ppls realize it is the end, the end of ur world, cus for 4yrs ur life been revolving around the two of u, but now all that there feel like a blackhole. What i AM going to tell u is & i know u hear this a lot but it is absolutely 100% true & a known fact. is u are going to be alright, not now or soon but u will, give it a bit of time cus time can heal all wounds. &0
Most Helpful Girl
Try your best to distract yourself with something else whether that be a good book, friends, a sport, crafts, etc. It will be hard to try to stop thinking about him but it should get easier and easier each day until one day when you totally forget about him. Just try to distract yourself. I promise you the right guy will come along one day! He often comes when you least expect it!0
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