We don't even see each other anymore, I've deactivated my facebook and keep myself distracted, I started working out and taking up new hobbies, I'm almost always distracted... but sometimes he just suddenly pops up in my thoughts again and I feel like I'm going back to square one.
I'm not devastated anymore, I'm quite happy with my life, but why do I still miss him? It's been over six months and I really want it to go away ;-;
Most Helpful Guy
Unfortunately it is going to be impossible to stop having feelings for someone all together. However because of him and your relationship and what you miss of it, you are more likely to put up a wall in those situations. Since that wall is now firmly placed there will be guys that stick out. You will notice them beyond your feelings toward your ex and those are the ones that you should hold some conversations with. Dont lust yourself to guys just because you're trying to get rid of your old one. Like anything in life its a process.0
Most Helpful Girl
This is the hardest feeling yet, I know exactly how you are feeling. And believe me, it is the worst feeling even when you do feel like you're beginning to get on with your life. Feelings don't always go away as quickly as you want them to and whether you've been broken up for 6 days, weeks or months, they will always come flooding back. Sometimes you might see something that reminds you of this guy and then you'll have a memory pop back into your head. It is good that you are keeping yourself busy and by the sounds of it, you are doing things you enjoy and doing things for yourself. Sadly, you can't just switch your feelings off, I wish we could but we can't, what you're doing is great though, you're getting your life back and doing things you love. You'll meet someone one day that will make you forget all about this guy and that will be the best feeling ever.
Good Luck & Keep Smiling0