So, me and my ex broke up after three years about six months ago. He has been very weird to me. He has given me mixed up signals these months. One day he wants so hang out and he is very intressed in everything about me but the next day he can be a total douche and tell me that "we are never ever getting back together". He seems pretty jealous of me, asks questions of me from mutual friends and then rages about other boys. He has been going wild about seeing other girls but doesn't want anything serious. He has been hurting a lot of girls lately. He drunk calls me and stuff too. Now he is seeing one of his friends ex girl and the friend is pissed off. He tells me that is "VERY SERIOUS" and tries to make me jealous. To all of his friends he tells that they are friends with benefits and she is not his type. and by the way his whole family and all of his friends says he has changed and they are worried about him
What does he want from me? and is this a rebound relationship... H E L P!
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3 years is a long time to be with someone, and I can imagine this confusion has really hit you hard and I am sorry you are feeling this way. Men act strange, as do some women but mostly men, they do weird things when they're not sure what they want in life, and they jump ahead and then regret it in the long run. Mixed signals are always one thing in a relationship I either believe to be that 'he's not interested' or 'he's scared', and to me, in this situation, he is definitely sounding scared. He wants to be with you, it is obvious, you guys spent so much time together and nobody can turn their feelings off just like that, especially after that long. Him saying this other relationship is 'very serious' is actually just a way of making you jealous to that YOU run back to him, men love it if they feel like they have the power to make a girl run back to them. He is telling two different stories which leads me to believe that he is just as confused about his future are you are. If you are close to his family and you feel like he has 'changed' and are worried about him, maybe you should sit down and have a talk with them, see if you guys can come to some kind of agreement to sit him down and have a talk with him. If you really love him and know this is the man you want to spend your time with, it will be worth fighting for.
Good Luck, hope it all works out for you and keep smiling!1