What does he want from me? and is this a rebound relationship... H E L P!
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3 years is a long time to be with someone, and I can imagine this confusion has really hit you hard and I am sorry you are feeling this way. Men act strange, as do some women but mostly men, they do weird things when they're not sure what they want in life, and they jump ahead and then regret it in the long run. Mixed signals are always one thing in a relationship I either believe to be that 'he's not interested' or 'he's scared', and to me, in this situation, he is definitely sounding scared. He wants to be with you, it is obvious, you guys spent so much time together and nobody can turn their feelings off just like that, especially after that long. Him saying this other relationship is 'very serious' is actually just a way of making you jealous to that YOU run back to him, men love it if they feel like they have the power to make a girl run back to them. He is telling two different stories which leads me to believe that he is just as confused about his future are you are. If you are close to his family and you feel like he has 'changed' and are worried about him, maybe you should sit down and have a talk with them, see if you guys can come to some kind of agreement to sit him down and have a talk with him. If you really love him and know this is the man you want to spend your time with, it will be worth fighting for.
Good Luck, hope it all works out for you and keep smiling!