Sick for dreaming about him, sick of comparing myself to his ex's and other girls he knows. I want my life back, instead of feeling shit everytime I'm at home I wanna feel good and stop caring about other girls he liked in the past and comparing them to myself. Tips?
Most Helpful Guy
you don't need to compare yourself, you're beautiful in your own right. you're comparing yourself to other beauties most likely. it'd be one thing if your looks were poor, but you can only nitpick when you look as good as you do. you can get almost any guy you want. keep your personality nice and date someone just a nice. things will change quickly.3
Most Helpful Girl
I can relate to you so much on this one, and going through a break up is so hard, and believe me they never get any easier. You dream about him because he is constantly on your mind and something that you may want back into your life. The worst feeling is waking up in the morning and remembering that you are no longer together, but when you feel like that, just remember that today is a new day and you don't know what it might bring. You will always have your good days and you bad days. You are your own person as well, and you have your own individuality, so please try not to compare yourself to anyone else. Always remember that you are good enough, and you are pretty enough. You still have your life, somewhere inside, your life is still there, you need to just ease into ways of distracting yourself and taking him from your mind. You could maybe hang out with some friends, watch you favourite TV series or even listen to some music (but nothing that will remind you of him). When you're at home alone, don't sit and think about it, that is the worst thing you can do. One thing I will advice is, if you feel you want to express yourself about how you're feeling, maybe towards him or just in general, write your feelings down. Maybe in a message or a letter (if you would prefer to hand write it) and say everything you need to, and then don't send it. It will make you feel so much better to have written your feelings down, completely truthful for nobody else to see but you. Also, talking to someone about how your feeling always helps
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