I have been w my husband for 3 years we have 1 child together, but last night we got into a big fight because he was going through my phone and seen my Facebook memories of things that were before him, everytime we have a big fight he calls me a b**** & h** he even pushed me hard into the basket of clothes last night that has been the 3rd time he's done that, I didn't even touch him, I have hit him on his bk before but that's because he was calling me disrespectful names he hasn't always been this way, but I think it's time to move on we have been down the road before he even took my phone away from me after our fight? Even tho I work to? I don't know what to do about this situation.
Most Helpful Guy
you have to talk to him as truthfully and honestly as possible so he knows exactly how you feel. then he has no excuse to not make a change as he's fully aware of the poor state the marriage is in (maybe this is obvious but doing this step 100% rules out "not knowing" you felt this bad etc). if he doesn't begin to change and show that it's a lasting change, then it shows it's not going to work. i personally think it's best to exhaust all options at trying to fix a marriage before quitting. but you don't want it to drag out forever either. of course you should be thinking of your child too and what is best for them. it goes without saying he's not treating you well in these circumstances of your past popping up.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Yes. Move on. He is abusive.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE