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Don't believe everything you hear. He was seeing her for 20 years and you for 7? wtf...
How would you ever trust him after this, I usually am the one that always try to get people to work things out because we all have our situations in life and love BUT he has deceived you for way too long. He has basically lived a double life and now he is ready to leave her and marry you? Come on! If he wanted this then he could have had the balls a very very long time ago...Unless you want to go into a marriage thinking by having a ring on your finger will heal the wounds!
At least give it some time (a few years) to make sure that you will be happy with him for the rest of your life. For a man to stay in a relationship with a woman out of guilt, bulls**t and you know this. Think with your head and not your heart, it has no reasoning. Good luck, you will need it! Ty-lady!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE