So, my ex of many years left me eight months ago, claimed that I didn't spend enough time with her, that I belittled her, and didn't respect her time with her friends, in actuality I was resentful of her lack of employment for seven years and there was no end in sight. I had finally delivered the ultimatum politely that she needed to consider finding work or consider other living arrangements as she was entirely too comfortable sleeping 12 hours a day and watching tv when she was awake. She got a job AND moved out, she left a majority of her possessions here as in her eyes, I own nothing but the house itself. She then dated me a couple times, then two months back, moved much of what she had taken, home, and spent a month here aside from a few days a week. She then accused me of being too demanding of her time, and disappeared. We still talk occasionally, but I initiate contact, and have only seen her a few times for a short period in the last month. I'm assuming the presence of another guy which she vehemently denies, but she's never left without a spare man handy. Ideas or input appreciated.
girlfriend was moving back in, left her stuff and ghosted, need input?
Why are "divorces" so prevalent these days? What do you think is the most common reason for divorce? Should I just give up on an emotionally unavailable man? Have you ever been ghosted instead of getting broken up with? Are you a child of divorce? And do you love differently because of it? Do you ever worry that you will never find love again after a breakup?
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