it all felt so rushed but I liked it, and he told me he was falling for me and he can't wait to make me proud every day of him. We went on nice dates, he would get angry at guys even looking at me in the street and shout at them, I brushed it off because he got cheated on, then dropped me out of nowhere, he told me he isn't ready and maybe it's because we have rushed things after all that. I tried talking to him a week later and I'm getting no response. I'm so confused?
Most Helpful Guy
ummm... how soon did he "get in a relationship" with you after his last one? Because all of this is just screams moving too fast, the only thing missing is a marriage proposal. Do you know his single history? Like, if he's never been single for more than a month for example? Overall, I'm just getting this sense that this gentleman is... trying to heal from something too quickly. With such a fast pacing, it just screams to me that is relationship isn't just about you and him and a future. There's something in his past there that wants to affirm to himself that this could work, that this is right, and that you're the right one. By rushing it, he's trying to get that proof as soon as possible so he can really convince himself. Just a guess, and i"m not trying to discourage holding on and such, but I've seen it happen.
Most Helpful Girl
Basically he rushed as he was desperate but got scared when he realised what he'd done