I was in a great relationship with my 21 yr old boyfriend who seemed really genuine and down to earth but it's like as soon as he got me pregnant he didn't want me anymore. He tells me I should get an abortion and I would do it but he's no longer with me and so why do I need please him? Thing is he says if I keep it he'll be there for it because he doesn't want to be a deadbeat dad but he's put through so much emotional pain I don't know if I even want him in my life. I want the baby but I don't want to ever talk to him again. He left me for someone else and all I ever was to him was nice and supportive. But if I have the baby I'll have to keep seeing this guy that broke my heart.
Most Helpful Guy
Wow!! What a coward he is!
You should do whatever your heart says. If you don't want any hassle or baby then get it aborted but if you really want to keep it then consider keeping it but do think of your future as well and its really great that your parents are supporting you. Just don't do anything that you regret later.
hope it helped
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Most Helpful Girl
seems like he got what he wanted and he's unable to face his responsibilities and he's making up lame excuses just to avoid facing the situation.
Do you feel ready to take care of a baby and provide him with love attention and he always here for him/her?
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