I recently decided to break up with my boyfriend.
It all started when he received a text from his ex's cousin and lied to me about who she was saying it was his sister's friend. When I know from previous initial stalking that it is actually his ex's cousin.
My reason for calling it quits is because white lies lead to bigger lies and I felt hurt that he didn't trust me with the complete truth. Like why lie if you have absolutely nothing to hide?
I reacted by avoiding him for three weeks- we spoke on WhatsApp but didn't meet up or call each other.
When I eventually did tell him about his life he didn't even acknowledge it , all he did was turn it around on me and ask if this was the reason why I was avoiding him.
After which I broke up with him and he was so calm and okay with it. He told me we had good memories and we should leave it as that. I was really hurt at his nonchalant manner and his don't care attitude.
He has to drop off my keys so I suggested we could talk about things...
So my question is... am I wasting my time trying to make things work with someone like him or should I just move on - which is just so damn hard.
Please please help. I need to make a decision soon.
Should I call it quits?
What Guys Said 2
Nah, from the sound of it, he already moved on dude. Just take your keys, wish him a good life and forget about him. And try not to stalk anymore k? 😂1
What Girls Said 1
Dump him. He's okay with it anyway. Why even waste your energy?1
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