Most Helpful Guy
The guy just regret his proposion which i think has nothing to do with you, he just felt not ready that's all
Most Helpful Girl
The word girlfriend puts a lot of pressure on situations for no reason, it's just a word. It doesn't mean shit other than I like this person and I fuck this person and I don't like anyone else or fuck anyone else. That's all "girlfriend/boyfriend" means. Maybe it's a him thing. Some people don't like the word. Try to work it out.