After this all came out he said he wasn't wanting a relationship and thinks he needs to sort things out first and that he'd just end up hurting me.
So it ended nicely, with I love yous and it will take me a long time to get over you blah blah blah then I saw him on tinder, it said he was looking for some fun or a relationship with the right person. So I confronted him about it and asked why he couldn't have just told me the truth the week before. He said I can think what I like but he's not looking to be with anyone. He also tried to get in touch with me last week which I ignored because otherwise I'll just get led along the garden path again. I've now seen him on POF where it clearly states his intentions are "looking for a relationship".
Why would he lie to me? It's hardly to spare my feelings is it?
I already know I need to take some of my own advice and stop bloody looking for him! I want to move on but he keeps finding ways of getting in touch with me which puts him prominently in my mind.
Most Helpful Guy
He is an ex and what he does he has the right to do despite how you feel during your split and anything thereafter.
The real thing to be asking is why you keep looking for him at this sites, why it bothers you so much and what is about him where you can't block or ignore him to keep him out your mind.
Most Helpful Girl
You just need to go cold turkey. I know it's easier said than done as there are still feelings.
You know your worth as a person. You are beautiful inside and out Hun. No man is worth the heartache and games.